I’m From Connecticut (Southington) and I think Connecticut Sucks – Here’s 8 Reasons Why
I was watching this YouTube video of Joe Rogan talking about why Connecticut sucks and I nearly spit my coffee out all over myself laughing because it was so funny and spot on.
“CT sucks” and “Connecticut sucks” are pretty popular search terms because Joe Rogan is right. People who live there kind of know it sucks. It’s why my parents and my sister moved to Rhode Island, it’s why I will never make CT my home ever again, it’s why my oldest brother lives in Texas. It’s why we’re still trying to rescue my other brother and his family from the state, but he’s deeply entrenched. It may be a lost cause.
Joe says Connecticut has a weird vibe. He says it has a feeling of despair, hopelessness and sadness. That it’s just a highway between New York and Boston, that it’s “not a real state” and that it’s a 5th world country.
All very harsh but the underlying message is true, Connecticut sucks – here are my 8 reasons why:
1 – Economic Downward Spiral
I majored in accounting and finance as a 20 something at the University of Connecticut. School was so expensive and I was having the Air Force reserve pay for my tuition so I wanted to get out ahead financially by being able to land one of those “good jobs” (side note, jobs suck too). As such I was able to land a position with PWC. If I would have been located somewhere else, being exposed to technology and websites I most likely would have learned a more tech oriented trade instead of a trade that literally serves me no use now as a soloprenur living abroad and working online.
Connecticut is also a state with no tech oriented jobs. Just old, boring established companies like banks and insurance companies. If you want to live in Connecticut and make enough to live you’re basically going to need to be an engineer or work in some financial capacity in a cubicle. If you have no talent for numbers, and consider yourself more of a creative type then Connecticut is not for you as you’re going to be broke as the state lacks opportunity outside these narrow areas.
The state is also in a weird downward spiral because there is a lack of high paying jobs, people can’t make enough to live, yet we’re a high tax state. So they increase the taxes on people and companies who actually pay taxes. Which eventually drives these productive people away. Leaving older folks like my parents wondering why no one can buy their house in the middle of no-where Connecticut.
Next, Connecticut has some of the best universities, yet the state experiences a major brain drain simply because the state only offers boring jobs working in cubicles in the areas of finance and accounting.
Lastly, Connecticut is also one of the few states that experiences a population decline. Why? It’s not a place young people can live and get on with life. Jobs pay too little, taxes are too high and the cost of living is even higher.
2 – Low Value For Your Money
Connecticut is a high tax state. What do you get for your money? Nothing. You get to live in the dark woods of Connecticut, surrounded by either rich people or the poor people that work for the rich people. If you want to see a 5th world place go to Waterbury Connecticut. A pit if I ever saw one. Ugly city layout, crime, wannabe rappers and thugs. No jobs besides working retail at Target.
One of my biggest issues with the state is that you get so little for your money. Rent in Connecticut is outrageous. $1,200+ a month and for what? Yea you can probably find somewhere for $800 a month but you’ll be living in a pit like Waterbury where your shit will be stolen while you’re at work.
When I ask my good friends from New Mexico, how much does a place cost in Albuquerque they tell me a normal, safe, no frills apartment costs around $500-$600 USD a month. I laughed. I cried. A place like that does not exists in Connecticut.
Also, how are you supposed to afford a 1,200 USD a month apartment, car, insurance and food if you’re making 37,000$ a year working in accounts payable in the bowels of an insurance company? At least with other high tax places like California you get nice beaches and parks.
3 – People are Stuck in Their Bubble
In Connecticut people are either in their work bubble, car bubble or home bubble. It’s challenging to network, meet new people and make new and interesting friends simply because Connecticut people stick to their friends from high school or their work mates.
It’s lame. It’s a cultural thing too. I don’t know why it’s such a big deal to go out and socialize, yet it is.
If you land a job in the state good luck trying to build out a quality social circle. People just don’t go out and do stuff. Partly because there is nothing to do in Connecticut other than drive long distances in your car or wander around a bleak mall. But also it’s a cultural thing. Just stay home, stay at at work or drive around. If you like being alone, Connecticut is the place for you.
4 – Lack of Connecticut Culture
Connecticut lacks things that are uniquely Connecticut. Want to go to a bar? You’ll have to go somewhere lame like Applebees or some other generic big brand that can put up with the high cost of living in Connecticut. Want Coffee? Starbucks or Dunkin Doughnuts it is.
To put it i perspective, my parents moved to Rhode Island and I love it there. They actually have their own local culture and business. Narraganset beer, Dells Italian ice, local restaurants, beautiful beaches and lovely cities to walk around and shop.
Connecticut only seems to have big box stores and generic big companies. Starting a local business is extremely expensive and not worth the headache in Connecticut. Particularly when you consider the population decline and the overall brain drain.
5 – Crappy Cities
Hartford, known lovingly in Connecticut as Fartford is Connecticut’s capital city. A tiny city within minimal shops and eateries. During the weekend, unlike other cities it’s totally abandoned. You won’t see anyone walking around.
Because NO ONE who works in Hartford lives in Hartford.
Because it’s a city that has nothing to do and it’s surrounded by poor neighborhoods. So if you went to college and want a good job, you want to live by other up and coming people. Not the Puerto Rican drug dealer or other assortments of crime that poverty brings.
What about New Haven? Yale is there, it must be nice right? New Haven is a dangerous city. Nothing to do, nowhere to go and it has a weird dichotomy of this world famous university and crime.
Waterbury CT is a pit and should be avoided at all costs.
New Britain is filled with thugs, wannabe rappers and tough guys. That city could burn to the ground for all I care.
Bridgeport is an old rust belt city that is crime ridden. If you’re looking to get mugged or rapped, check out Bridgeport! The heroin capital of CT!
Connecticut honestly does not have a single nice city. Not even one city where you go and people are walking around, shopping, going to eat with their families etc.
6 – Traffic and Everything is Far away
It takes forever to get anywhere in Connecticut. All the major roads have too much traffic, partly because the high way system has these retarded left hand exits. So you end up having people that are in the passing lane, having to slow down because they get stuck behind a guy who exiting.
Also, everything is far away. It takes 30 minutes to drive to get food, then another long trip to go to the bank, then another long trip back home. It’s annoying. Everything is so far away. It’s also the norm live 40 to 60 minutes away from where you work. This obviously contributes to the congestion because when people want to leave their home bubble, it’s off for a 40 minute journey in the car bubble.
Like I previously mentioned about Hartford. People live in the suburbs and commute. No one who is middle class actually lives in the cities in Connecticut. Who am I kidding, there is barley a middle class anymore in Connecticut!
7 – Reputation of Being Rich only Due to one Area
Connecticut has a lot of wealth but it’s all concentrated in one area. That little nose section near New York city. Why? Because high net worth people who work in NYC may not want to live in NYC. So they choose a big house and a yard in Connecticut.
It then gives the state this annoying reputation that everyone from CT is rich or at least comes from money. My dad was a brick layer, my mom was nurses aid. Combined they made about 70,000 USD a year and raised 4 kids. I do not come from money at all, but I know I know.
I’m white and I’m from Connecticut so my life must have been sooooo easy.
Connecticut is a tough state to live in. It’s way to expensive, jobs don’t pay enough and you get so little for your money.
8 – BORING
Connecticut is boring. There is nothing to do in Connecticut. There is nowhere to go other than malls and wandering around a Dicks sporting goods looking at hockey sticks and guns, contemplating ending it all there.
Connecticut lacks nice, vibrant cities, everything is far away, people don’t socialize and it’s expensive so it’s hard to have enough discretionary income.
On top of that all the surrounding states do something better.
Want a big city, go to NYC.
Want a cool, historical city, you got Boston.
Want a small town feel, local culture and medium sized cities, you have Rhode Island.
Want to ski, you have Vermont and New Hampshire.
Want an out door lifestyle, you have Main.
In Connecticut you have only boredom, dispair, sadness and a lack of opportunity.
You may be wondering now, “wow you really hate your home state.” No, but it’s not the state it could be. The positives of Connecticut are that living in the suburbs while boring, is safe. Connecticut is also very beautiful in the fall. If you’re a quite person who wants a peaceful, boring place to raise a family (if you’re making the kind of money to raise a family) Connecticut may be for you.
Thanks for reading 🙂